We are in the midst of a unit called “Safety”. It’s part of our Maslow year.
What’s interesting about “safety” is that everything connects to it, but nothing does directly. When we did our first unit, Survival, we read “The Most Dangerous Game” and “To Build a Fire” and kids took notes and it all was pretty clear. Our “high flyers” were able to make connections beyond physical survival–how elements of survival apply to emotional experiences, too. But safety is not so clear.
Here is an interesting poem about tug-of-war. Everyone likes tug-of-war. Well, not everyone. In fact, many people hate it. Why? Good question.
Get out the journals and have them write about their tug-of-war feelings. Then break out the rope. Fun? Not so much, except for some. Who? Why?
Then read the poem. Analysis!
Note: As with many poems, analysis may or may not determine if this is a poem about sex or not. I have used it to talk about the conflict that happens in relationships, when you get to the point where you are hurting the other person because winning becomes more important than resolution or truth. Very middle school drama. The end of the second paragraph and start of the third has all of the hallmarks, though, of a tryst. I still believe that this is about relationships, but perhaps the bedroom is one side of that. Or not. (Mr. Brown, if you read this, please chime in). I used it before it was pointed out to me, but next time I will probably pass. Your call.
If it had become a competition in which we,
Like children desperate for the blue ribbon,
Pulled knotted hemp, gripping until certain
Of calluses, if our contest awarded the strongest,
The boy who could best inflict pain yet not
Flinch when injured, then you won, for I must
Imagine the brown of your back to reach my
Peak, a short thread of breaths, a tug of war
With the heaviest child grunting at the end
Of the rope until jerked and dragged over
The line. That fat kid flounders through muck
The way I splash your relentless name
In shivers about me. Watch him wallow.
If he tastes mud as bitter as this poem
Of mine, then I win – and you love me.